which strategy to follow?

I don't read much...
and especially "101 ideas to achieve something" kinda books..
more particularly "make anyone fall in love with you"

pity... we always search and see how others did in this kind of situation.. and act like them

"You can't step into the same river twice"

each moment every second we spend is unique..
there is no such same situation that gets automated with our answer..
I am also interested to know how they react but I cant agree to follow..

nope... i don't mean you've to be more creative.. because you are.. I laugh if someone say "that person is more creative".. no one is like that, everyone is creative may be we can say that person is using his/ her skill more. And please don't read the book "how to become more creative".

and don't care if your creative reactions fetch nothing.. the beautiful flower of this day might be blossoming somewhere in the middle of an African jungle.. whom is to be blamed.. am sure not the flower..

this life is ours and this problem, this opportunity and everything..
even if this is the same situation that so called winner got and worked out in his way, I don't want his way because now I am gonna walk..